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THE BOOK OF PROVERBS +
A
Bible Study
Date
If
Solomon is granted a prominent role in the book, (which we believe he is) most
of Proverbs would stem from the 10th century BC during the time of
Israel's united kingdom. The peace and prosperity of that era accord well with
the development of reflective wisdom and the production of literary works.
Authors
Although
Proverbs begins with a title ascribing the book of Proverbs to Solomon, it is
clear from later chapters that he was not the only author of the book. Proverbs
22:17 refers to the "sayings of the wise" and Proverbs 24:23 mention
additional "sayings of the wise. The presence of an introduction in
22:17-21, further indicates that these sections are from a circle of wise
men, not from Solomon himself. Chapter 30 is attributed to Agur son of Jekeh and
31:1-9 to King Lemuel, neither of whom is mentioned elsewhere. It is
interesting to note that Lemuel's sayings contain several Aramaic spellings that
point to a non‑Israelite background. Most of the book of Proverbs,
however, is closely linked to King Solomon.
Purpose
of Proverbs
Proverbs
was written to give "prudence to the simple, knowledge and discretion to
the young" (1:4) and to make wise men wiser (1:5). The frequent references
to "my son" (1:8, 10; 2:1; 3:1; 4:1; 5:1) emphasize instructing the
youth and guiding them into a happy and prosperous life. Acquiring wisdom and
knowing how to avoid pitfalls of folly will lead to health and success. Although
Proverbs is a practical book dealing with the art of living, it bases wisdom
solidly on the fear of the Lord (1:7). Throughout the book this reference for
God is set forth as the path to life and security (cf. 3:5; 9:l0; 22:4). People
must trust in the Lord (3:5) and not in themselves 28:26). The reference to the
"tree of life" (3:18; 11:30; 13:12) recall the joyful bliss of the
Garden of Eden and figuratively say that the one who finds wisdom will be
greatly blessed.
Outline
| I. Introduction | 1:1-7 |
| II. Lessons On Wisdom | 1:8-9:18 |
| III. Proverbs Of Solomon | 10:10-22:16 |
| IV. Two Collections Of Sayings Of Wise Men | 22:17-24:34 |
| V. More Of Solomon's Wisdom (Hezekiah's Collection) | 25-29 |
| VI. Sayings Of Agur | 30 |
| VII. Sayings Of King Lemuel | 31:1-9 |
| VIII. The Perfect Wife | 31:10-31 |
Table
of Contents
1.
The Purpose Of The Book Of Proverbs
3.
Discipline - Correction - Criticism (Constructive)
4.
Fools
5.
Friends
6.
God
10.
Vices
11.
Virtues
1.
THE PURPOSE OF THE BOOK OF PROVERBS
The
opening verses of Proverbs, written by "Solomon, David's son, King of
Israel" state his purpose in writing this book under the inspiration of the
Holy Spirit. Christian parents are to impart the saving knowledge of Jesus
Christ to their offspring; they are to train the young in the way which they
should go and prepare them to live fruitful, productive and godly lives.
The people of God are enabled then by the Holy Spirit and empowered by
the Gospel, to impart wisdom, to be righteous, just and fair.
A.
The Purpose of Proverbs
"The
Proverbs of Solomon, David's son, king of Israel: to give people wisdom and
discipline, to understand intelligent speech, and to learn the discipline of
understanding, to be righteous, just and fair. They should make the simple
shrewd and give young people knowledge and skill. 1:1-4
B.
Advice
"Give
advice to a wise man and he'll be wiser still. Teach a righteous man and he'll
learn the more. 9:9
"It
is intelligent to keep one's counsel." 11:12b
"Where
there's nobody to lead them. An army will fall, but many advisors can save
it." 11:14
"If
you shun making rash bargains you're safe." 11:15b
"Those
who take advice are wise " 13:10b
"Plans
go wrong without advice, but with many advisers they succeed" 15:22
"Listen
to advice and take criticism if you want to be wise the rest of your life.
19:20
"Advice
brings plans to realization; with shrewd guidance one carries on a war. "
20 :18
"A
man who listens to advice may speak. 21:18b
"Tell
me with whom you associate, and I will tell you who you are. The Book of
Proverbs bears out that old saying in a powerful and telling manner. Those
with whom we have to do in life can radically influence us either for good or
for evil. Too often children and teens believe their parents are trying to
"run their lives, " when they warn them against certain companions.
Failing to heed such warnings can result in a lifetime of misery and feelings of
guilt. Reading Proverbs on EVIL COMPANIONS can help today's Christian young
person as well as parents avoid the pitfalls that damage and destroy so many.
It's as true now as when inspired Solomon wrote it 3,000 years ago.
A.
Companions, Evil
"Walk
with wise men and you'll be wise; but keep company with fools and you'll suffer
for it. 13:20
"Don't
be a friend of one who has a temper, and don't accompany a hothead, or you will
learn his ways and get yourself into a trap." 22:24, 25
"Don't
envy men or wish you were with them, because they're busy planning crime, and
what they say brings misery to others. 24:1, 2
"Fear
the Lord, my son, and the king: don't mix with those who insist on change.
24:21
"Like
a spring trampled by animals and a polluted well is a righteous person who
yields to the wicked. 25:26
"If
anyone leads good people astray, he will fall into his own pit, but the innocent
will inherit prosperity. 28:10
3.
DISCIPLINE - CORRECTION - CRITICISM (CONSTRUCTIVE)
The
nation's correctional institutions are populated with inmates who were never
disciplined or corrected or who were always allowed "to do their own
thing. Many in our society are crude, disrespectful and obnoxious because
"they just growed up like Topsy."
Many parents of our day have allowed their offspring to reach adulthood
without ever criticizing or correcting or restraining their rebellious
destructive ways. Many have never experienced the blessings of a good spanking
administrated by loving parents at a critical stage in their lives. This section
deals with issues like these.
"Like
a gold ring and a necklace of fine gold is a wise criticism to those of the ear
of the one who listens." 25:12
"A
wicked person...dies because he had no discipline. 5:22a, 23a
"If
you correct a scoffer, you get insulted. If you criticize a wicked person, you
get hurt. Don't correct a scoffer or he will hate you; correct a wise person and
he will love you. 9:7, 8
"If
you practice discipline you're on the way to life, and if you ignore criticism
you'll go wrong. 10:17
"If
you delight in discipline, you'll love to learn; but a stupid person refuses
correction. 12:1
"If
you despise a word of warning you'll pay the penalty for it. 13:13a
"Anyone
who hates criticism will die. 15:10b
"Criticism
to an intelligent person has more effect than a hundred lashes on a fool.
17:10
"When
a scoffer is punished, a simple person gets wiser. 21:11a
Open
criticism is better than hidden love. Well meant are the wounds made by a
friend, but an enemy's kisses are too much to bear. 27:5, 6
"Criticize
a man, and afterwards he'll be kinder than if you had flattered him." 28:23
The
title of this section has a rather jarring effect on our ears! At the same time,
who of us would argue that all too often we are the victims of our own
foolishness or of the foolishness of others. Every reader can profit greatly
from this section by practicing some real introspection. One is reminded of Poet
Robert Burns who wrote: "O wad some power the gift to see ourselves as
others see us" No book of Scripture deals as extensively with the subject
of this section as does Proverbs.
"Better
to meet a bear robbed of her young than a fool involved with his nonsense.
17:12
"Fools
despise wisdom and training. 1:7b
"Fools
will bear disgrace. 3:35b
"A
rod is for the back of one who has no sense...a fool's mouth threatens ruin.
10:13b, 14b
"Anyone
who reveals hatred with lying lips is a fool, as is the person who spreads
slander. 10:23a
"Fools
die for lack of sense. 10:21b
"Doing
something lewd is fun for a fool. 10:23a
"Being
a fool you will be a slave for the wise. 11:29b
"A
fool considers his own way right. 12:15a
"When
a fool is irritated, he shows it immediately. 12:16a
"'The
stupidity of fools misleads them. 14:8b
"A
fool scorns guilt. 14:9a
"Fine
talk doesn't fit a fool. 17:7a
"'The
mouth of fools pours out nonsense. 15:2b
"A
fool scorns his father's correction" 15:5a
"Why
should a fool have money in his hand to buy wisdom when he doesn't have a mind
to grasp it?" 17:16
"Even
a fool is thought wise if he remains silent, and considered intelligent if he
keeps his lips closed. 17:28
"A
fool doesn't delight in reasoning but only in expressing what he thinks. 18:2
"By
talking, a fool gets into a quarrel, and his mouth calls out for beating. A
fool's mouth ruins him, and his lips trap him." 18:6, 7
When
a man by his own foolishness is a failure, his heart rages against the Lord.
19:3
"Any
fool can start a fight. 20:3b
"Don't
talk to a fool because he will despise the wise things you say. 23:9
The
purpose of a fool is sin. A scoffer gets hated by everyone. 24:9
"A
stone is heavy and sand weighs much, but a fool's annoyance is heavier than
both. 27:3
When
a wise person argues with a fool, the fool may rage or laugh without fear.
29:9
"A
fool expresses all his emotion, but a wise person holds it back. 29:11
We
all need friendship. We need others to share life's ups and downs, to be there
for us, to cry on their shoulder, to pray for us. Who are your friends? We have
many who are close to us but those who we can count on when the chips are really
down can probably be counted on one hand. Our greatest friend is our Lord and
Savior Jesus, the FRIEND of sinners. Here the book
of Proverbs tells us what a friend is all about.
"A
friend will always love you, and a brother is born to share trouble. 17:17
"A
man and his friends can destroy one another, but there is a friend who sticks
closer than a brother. 18:24
"Step
infrequently into your neighbor's house, or he'11 see too much
of you and hate you. 25:17
"Well
meant are the wounds of a friend, but an enemy's kisses are too much to bear.
27:6
"Perfume
and incense may delight the heart, but look, the sweetness of a friend is an
aromatic forest. Don't forsake your
friend or your father's friend...When anyone gets up early in the morning and
blesses his friend in a loud voice, the friend may consider it a curse. 27:9,
10a, 14
Does
God exist? How did the universe come into being? What about the world of
animals, birds and insects? What about God's Son? Does God become angry? Does He
discipline us? Is He watching us? Are we to respect Him? Does He call us to
account? What about His name, his providence? Are we to search for Him? Does He
test our heart? Should we put our trust in Him? Is our victory in Him? What
about vows made to Him? Is His Word reliable? Solomon responds to all of these
questions in this GOD chapter.
A.
God-The Creator
"By
wisdom the Lord laid the foundations of the earth, and by understanding, He set
up the sky. By His knowledge the deep waters broke out and the clouds dropped
dew. 3:19, 20
"The
Lord has made everything for its own purpose. 16:4a
"A
hearing ear and a seeing eye, the Lord made both of them. 20:12
"A
rich man and poor man meet, the Lord made them both. 22:2
B.
God's Son
"The
Lord became My Father at the beginning of His way, long before any of His works.
I was set up from everlasting, from the first, before the earth was. Before
there was any ocean, I was born, before there were springs, or sources of water.
Before the mountains were settled in their places and before the hills, I was.
When He hadn't yet made 1and or gravel or the mass of soil in the world, when He
set up the heavens, I was there. When He made the horizon on the surface of the
ocean, when He set limits for the sea and wouldn't let the water flow farther
than He ordered, when He set up the foundations of the earth then I was beside
Him as a master workman. From day to day I was delighted, always happy before
Him, rejoicing in His inhabited world, and delighted with human beings. 8:22-31
C.
God-The Anger of
"The
Lord hates the thoughts of an evil man, but friendly words are pure. 15:26
"The
mouth of adulterous women is a deep pit; anyone with whom the Lord is angry will
fall into it. 22:14
D.
God-The Eyes of
"The
Lord's eyes see the road every person takes; He observes all his paths. 5:21
"The
Lord's eyes are everywhere, watching the wicked and the good. 15:3
"The
Lord's eyes are watching over knowledge. 22:12a
E.
God-The Fear of
"Fearing
the Lord is the best way to know anything. 1:7a
"They...would
rather not fear the Lord. 1:29b
"Then
you will know how to fear the Lord and will get to know God. 2:5 (read 2:1-4
first)
"The
fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, knowledge of the Holy One is
understanding. 9:10
"The
man who lives right fears the Lord, but if you live wrong you'll despise Him.
14:2
When
you fear the Lord, you are trained in wisdom. 15:33a
"Fearing
the Lord leads to life. 19:23a
F.
God-The Justice of
"The
Lord hates everyone who is proud; let me assure you he will not escape
punishment. 16:5
"Don't
rob the weak because he's helpless or tramp on the rights of the
needy at the gate, because the Lord will defend them and will rob the
life of those who rob them. 22:22, 23
"If
you say, 'Look this isn't our business,' won't He who weighs hearts consider it?
And He who guards your life, won't He know it?" 24:12
"Many
want a ruler to be kind
to
them, but justice comes from the Lord. 29:26
"An
eye that mocks a father and scorns a mother will be picked
out by the crows in the
valley and eaten by vultures. 30:17
G.
God's Name
"The
Lord's name is a strong tower; a righteous person runs into it and is safe.
16:10
H.
God-The Providence of
"A
lot is cast into a lap, but how it will come out is decided by the Lord."
16:33
"Lambs
will provide you with clothes, and the money you get for the goats will buy a
field. There will be enough goat's milk to feed you and your family and it will
keep your maids alive. 27:26, 27
I.
God-Tests Hearts
"Like
a crucible for silver and a smelter for gold, the Lord tests the hearts of
men. 17:3
J.
God-Trust in
"Trust
in the Lord with all your heart, and don't depend on your own wisdom.
Acknowledge Him in everything you do, and He will make your paths smooth.
3:5-6
"Don't
be afraid of anything that could suddenly terrify you or of the destruction of
the wicked when it comes, because you trust the Lord and He will keep your foot
from getting caught. 3:25, 26
"Happy
is the man who trusts in the Lord. 16:20b
"Don't
think you can pay back evil for evil; trust the Lord and He will save you.
20:22
"I'm
telling you this today, yes you, so that you will trust in the Lord. 22:19
"A
greedy person stirs up trouble, but one who trusts the Lord will prosper.
28:25
"A
man's fear lays a trap for him, but one who trusts the Lord is protected.
29:25
Everything
God said has proved to be true. He's a shield to those who come to Him for
protection. 20:5
K.
God-Victory is of
"Horses
may be made ready for the day of battle, but the victory belongs to the Lord.
21:31
L.
God-Word of
"Everything
God said has proved to be true...Don't add anything to what He says or He will
correct you, and you will be found a liar. 20:5a, 6
Does
it pay to be a Christian, a believer in Jesus Christ as our personal Savior from
sin? Does it pay to live a godly life, to speak as it becomes a follower of
Jesus, to treat enemies with forgiveness and love, and to walk in the ways of
the Lord? Solomon responds at length and in a very positive manner to these
questions for the encouragement of all who believe in and love the Lord Jesus.
A.
Godly-The Righteous
"The
thoughts of the righteous are honest. 12:5a
"A
fine understanding is gracious, but the manners of the treacherous are
rough." 13:15
"The
Lord's name is a strong tower; a righteous person runs into it and is
safe." 18:10
"He
who keeps the commandments preserves life. 19:16a
"Even
a child shows what he is by what he does, whether his work is pure and right.
20:11
"Doing
what is right and fair is more pleasing to the Lord than sacrifice. 21:3
"A
pure man does what is right. 21:8b
"A
righteous person may fall seven times and get up again. 24:16a
The
righteous feel safe as a young lion. 28:1b
"To
an evil man sin is a snare, but a righteous person overcomes it an is glad...A
person who knows what is right champions the cause of the weak; a wicked person
has no understanding of this... Blood‑thirsty men hate an innocent person,
but good people seek to live like him...When a king honestly provides justice
for the poor, his throne will be secure forever...Where there are many wicked,
crime increases, but the righteous will see their downfall... Righteous people
hate those who do wrong, and the wicked hate those who do right. 29:6, 7, 10,
14, 16, 27
B.
Godly-Righteous, Blessings of
"Good
people are guided by their innocence. 11:3a
"The
righteousness of the innocent makes their road smooth. 11:5a
"Good
people are saved by their righteousness. 11:6a
"By
knowledge the righteous are rescued. 11:9b
"A
kind man does himself a favor. 11:17a
"He
(God) is delighted with those whose ways are innocent. 11:20b
"Righteous
behavior is a tree of life. 11:30a
"The
house of the righteous will stand. 12:7b
"No
harm can come to the righteous. 12:21a
"The
house of the righteous is blessed" 14:9b
"When
the Lord is pleased with anyone's ways, He makes even his enemies become his
friends. 16:7
"The
highway of good people turns away from evil; if you watch your step, you can
preserve your life. 16:17
"Happy
is the man who trusts in the Lord. 16:20a
"Silver
hair is a beautiful crown when found on a person who has lived a righteous
life. 16:31
"If
you live right and you're honest, your children after you will be blest. 20:7
"A
good person is sure in his way. 21:29b
"To
be gracious is better than silver or gold. 22:1b
"You
see a man who is efficient in his work; he will serve kings; he will not serve
unknown people" 22:29
"A
trustworthy man has many blessings, but one who is in a hurry to get rich will
not stay innocent...A greedy person stirs up trouble, but one who trusts the
Lord will prosper. 28:20, 25
"When
there are many righteous, people are happy, but when a wicked person rules,
people groan. 29:2
C.
Godly-Righteous, Way Or Path Of
"Trust
in the Lord with all your heart, and don't depend on your own understanding.
Acknowledge Him in everything you do, and He will make your paths smooth. 3;
5, 6
"The
path of the righteous is like the morning light that gets brighter till it has
reached the brightest of the day. 4:18
"A
heart that has turned away will get it fill of its ways, but a good man will be
satisfied with his ways. 14:14
"A
shrewd person watches where he's going. 14:15b
"The
road of good people is a highway. 15:19b
"Entrust
your work to the Lord, and your plans will be fulfilled. 16:3
"A
man's mind may plan his journey, but the Lord directs his steps. 16:9
"A
person who develops the mind lives himself; one who fosters understanding finds
what is best. 19:8
"The
Lord is the One who directs a man's steps; how else can a man understand which
way to go?" 20:24
D.
Godly-Righteous, Death Of
"The
memory of the righteous is blessed, but the name of the wicked will rot away.
10:7
"A
righteous person has a refuge even when he's dying. 14:32b
This
is a timely section! It's a period in our nation's history marked by widespread
corruption in government, by unbridled lawlessness, time when many citizens are
doing what is right in their own eyes, when many judges and courts of law
justifiably merit little respect, when our nation, in the opinion of many
citizens, is in danger of "going down the tube. Solomon's day wasn't
that much different, and he was the King! Christians keep praying fervently:
"God bless our native land, Firm may she ever stand. May we never forget
Solomon's words on this subject
A.
Government-Rulers
"A
bad envoy makes trouble, but a dependable one heals trouble. 13:17
"In
a large population a king has
honor, but without people a ruler is ruined. 14:28
"A
king delights with a servant who acts intelligently, but he's angry with one who
acts shamefully. 14:35
"When
an oracle is on a king's lips, he cannot speak wrong in a legal decision.
16:10
"Kings
hate wrongdoing, because doing right makes a throne stand secure. Kings delight
in honest words, anyone telling the truth is loved. A king's anger comes as a
messenger of death, but a wise man can pacify it.
"A
king's shining face is like a spring cloud bringing rain. 16:12-15
"A
wise king scatters the wicked and drives the wheel over them. 20:26
When
you sit and eat with a ruler, pay close attention to what is set before you. If
you're a big eater, put a knife at your throat. Don't go on craving his
delicacies. This is food that deceives you. 23:1-3
B.
Government-Rulers, Godly
"Mercy
and truth protect a king, and by kindness he strengthens his throne. 20:28
"Only
with a man of intelligence and knowledge will it (the country) last long.
28:2b
"By
justice a king strengthens a country, but one who is deceitful tears it down.
29:4
"When
a king honestly provides justice for the poor, his throne will be secure
forever. 29:14
C.
Government-Ruler, Wicked
"A
wicked man ruling over poor people is like a roaring lion and
a
prowling bear. A ruler without understanding is a great oppressor, but those who
hate plunder live long...When the wicked rise men hide, but when they perish,
the righteous flourish. 28:15, 16, 28
"When
there are many righteous, people are happy, but when a wicked person rules,
people groan. 29:2
"By
justice a king is strengthening the country, but one who is deceitful tears it
down. 29:4
"If
a ruler listens to lies, all his servants will be wicked. 29:12
D.
Courts-Witnesses
"The
Lord hates...a dishonest witness telling lies. 6:16, 19a
"A
true witness speaks honestly, but a lying witness utters deceit. 12:17
"The
word of truth last forever, but a lying tongue only as long as it takes to wink
an eye. 12:19
"A
witness you can trust doesn't lie, but a dishonest witness
breathes lies. 14:5
"An
honest witness saves lives, but on who tells lies is a betrayer. 14:25
"The
first to state his case seems right, until another comes and examines him.
18:17
"A
worthless witness mocks at justice and the mouth of the wicked gulps down
wrong. 19:28
"With
patience you can persuade a judge. 25:15a
"A
man who lies in testifying against his neighbor is like a club, a sword, and a
sharp arrow. 25:18
D.
Courts-Justice
A
person is swept away where there's no justice. 13:23b
When
a wicked person secretly accepts a bribe, he prevents the ways of justice.
17:23
"It
isn't right to favor the guilty nor to deprive the innocent of justice. 18:5
"The
practice of justice delights the innocent but terrifies those who do wrong.
21:15
"It
isn't good to show partiality in court. If anyone says to the guilty, 'You are
innocent, ' people will curse him and nations will abhor him. Things will go
well for those who convict the guilty and they will have prosperity. 24:23a,
24-25
E.
Government-Nation, City
"When
the righteous prosper a city is glad. 11:10a
"With
the blessing of good people a town prospers, but the talk of the wicked tears it
down. 11:11
"Righteousness
lifts up a nation, but sin is the disgrace of people. 14:34
"When
a country is in revolt, it has many
rulers, but only with a man of
intelligence and knowledge will it last long. 28:2
"Scoffers
put a city in an uproar, but wise men turn away anger. 29:8
"Where
there is no divine revelation, a people run wild, but a people who keep the law
are happy. 29:18
As
the home goes, so goes the nation. In a time when half of all marriages end in
divorce , when there are millions of latch-key children in the land, when
more than a million fetuses are destroyed annually through abortion, when
abuse of parents and abuse and neglect of children by parents is endemic, when
hosts of Americans totally ignore and ridicule Christian moral values, there is
cause to fear for the future of the land we love. Solomon's timely and timeless
words in this section come as a real and very necessary breath of fresh air for
all who read and hear.
A.
Home-Family, Father/Mother
"My
son, listen to your father's criticism, and don't neglect your mother's teaching
because they are a beautiful garland on your head and an ornament around your
neck. 1:8-9
"A
father corrects a son he delights in. 3:12b
My
son, do what your father orders, and don't reject your mother's teaching.
6:20
"Listen,
my sons, to a father's instruction; pay attention to get understanding. The
learning I give you is good so don't give up anything I teach you. Once I was a
boy with my father, a tender and only child around my mother. He used to teach
me by telling me: 'With your heart get understanding.
Don't forget what I tell you or turn away from it. Cling to what I say.
Keep my instructions
"A
wise Son is corrected by his father. 13:1a
"If
you love wisdom, you make your father happy. 29:3a
B.
Home-Family, Adultery/Infidelity
"The
mouth of adulterous women is a deep pit; anyone with whom the Lord is angry will
fall into it. 22:14
"Like
a bird wandering from her nest, so is a man wandering from his home. 27:8
"This
is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats, wipes her mouth, and says, 'I've
done nothing wrong'." 30:20
C.
Home-Family, Godly Wife
"A
good wife is her husband's crown. 12:4a
Every
wise woman builds her home." 14:1a
"If
you have found a wife, you've found something good, and the Lord will be pleased
with you. 18:22
"A
home and wealth are inherited from our fathers, but a sensible wife comes from
the Lord. 19:14
D.
Home-Family, Ungodly wife
"A
good wife is her husband's crown, but one who brings disgrace is like rot in his
bones. 12:4
"Every
wise woman builds her home, but a foolish one tears it down with her own
hands. 14:1
E.
Home-Family, Nagging Wife
"A
nagging wife is like water dripping continually. 19:13b
"Better
live on the comer of a roof than share a home with a quarreling woman. 21:9
& 25:24
"Better
to live in a desert than with a quarreling and nagging woman. 21:19
"A
constant dripping on a rainy day and a nagging wife are alike. The one who can
control her can control the wind; and pick up olive oil with his right
hand." 27:15-16
F.
Home-Family, Married Love
"Drink
water from your own cistern, water flowing from your own well.
Why should the water from your spring flow outside, like streams of water
out on the streets? Keep them for yourself alone, and don't share them with
strangers. Let your own fountain be blessed; have pleasure with the girl you
married when you were young‑ a doe to be loved and a lovely wild goat.
" 5:15-19
G.
Home-Family, Parents
"If
you neglect your family you'll inherit the wind." 11:29a
"If
you are the parent of a fool, you'll have grief; the father of a fool has no
joy." 17:21
"If
you live right and you're honest, your children after you will be blessed."
20:7
"She
(the ideal wife) watches well the conduct of her family and doesn't allow the
bread of idleness to be eaten." 31:27
H.
Home-Family, Blessings of Child Training
"Train
a child in the way he should go, and even when he's old he will not leave
it." 22:6
"A
righteous man's father can surely rejoice; who has a wise son will take delight
in him." 23:34
"Correct
your son, and he will give you peace of mind and delight your soul." 29:17
I.
Home-Family, Grandparents/Grandchildren
"Grandchildren
are the crown of old people, and parents are the glory of their children."
17:6
J.
Home-Family, Instruction/Teaching.
"The
teaching of a wise person is a fountain of life; it turns away the snares of
death." 13:14
"A
scoffer searches for wisdom without finding it." 14:6a
"If
you answer before you listen, you are stupid and insulting." 18:13
"Allow
your mind to be trained and listen to intelligent words." 23:12
"Buy
truth and don't sell it; acquire wisdom, training, and understanding."
23:23
"As
iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens the wits of another." 27:17
There
are forty such vices counted in Proverbs. They're all a direct result of the
human family's alienation from God as a consequence of the sin of Adam.
Scripture tells us that before conversion the heart of man is deceitful above
all things and desperately wicked. The whole gamut of human vices has its roots
in sin. The entire list of these is in full flower today. Read and ponder!
A.
Vices-Anger
"It
is intelligent to control your anger." 19:11a
"A
king's anger is like a lion's roar, but his being pleased is like dew on the
grass." 19:12
"A
person who gets really angry will pay a price for it; if you rescue him you will
have to do it again." 19:19
"The
rod of your anger will do you in." 22:8b
"Anger
is cruel and fury a torrent, but who can
stand before jealousy . " 27: 4
"Scoffers
put a city in an uproar, but wise men turn away anger." 29:8
"An
angry person starts a fight, and a hot-headed person does a lot
of
wrong. " 29: 22
"Just as churning milk produces curds, and squeezing a nose produces blood, so stirring up anger produces a fight." 30:33
B.
Vices-Arrogance/Pride/Self-Trust
"Don't
think you are wise." 3:7a
"A
fool is careless and overconfident." 14:6b
"A
proud and conceited person is called a scoffer; there is arrogance and conceit
in what he does." 21:24
"If
you trust your own mind, you're a fool, but if you live wisely, you will
survive." 28:26
"Don't
give me poverty or riches. Feed me with the food I need. Or I may feel satisfied
and deny You, saying, 'Who is the Lord?'" 30:8b, 9a
C.
Vices-Betrayal
"An
honest witness saves lives, but one who tells lies is a betrayer." 14:25
"When
you argue your case with your neighbor, don't tell another person's secret, or
when he hears about it he will denounce you, and you will not be able to undo
the slander." 25:9, 10
D.
Vices-Betrayal
"Bad!
Bad! says the buyer, then as he goes away, he brags about his purchase."
20:14
"Like
misty clouds and a wind without rain is a man who brags about a gift he doesn't
give." 25:14
"Don't
brag about tomorrow because you don't know what a day may bring."
27:1
E.
Vices-Bribery
"No
money you pay him will move him and the biggest bribe will not satisfy
him." (the jealous husband) 6:35
"If
you refuse bribed you will live." 15:27b
"When
a wicked person secretly accepts a bribe, he prevents the ways of justice."
17:23
F.
Vices-Cursing
"If
anyone curses his father and his mother, his light will go out in total
darkness." 20:20
"Don't
slander a slave to his master, or he will curse you, and you will have to pay
for it. There is a generation who curse their fathers
and don't bless their mother." 30:10, 11
G.
Vices-Deceit
"One
person pretends to be rich and has nothing; another pretends to be poor and is
very rich." 13:7
"Don't
testify against your neighbor without a reason, nor deceive anyone with your
lips." 24:28
"Trusting
a treacherous person when you're in trouble is like having a crumbling tooth and
a lame foot." 25:19
"One
filled with hate disguises it with his lips, but inside he harbors deceit. When
he talks charmingly, don't trust him, because he has seven abominations in his
mind. His wicked hatred is deceitfully hidden, but his wickedness will show up
in the community." 26:24-26
H.
Vices-Dishonesty
"Put
away from you a mouth that says crooked things." 4:24a
"The
Lord hates dishonest scales but accurate weights please him." 11:1
"A
double standard of weights and measures - the Lord hates them both."
20:10
"Food
gotten dishonestly tastes good, but afterwards your mouth will be filled with
grit." 20:17
"Like
a crazy person shooting firebrands and deadly arrows, is one who cheats his
neighbor and says, 'I was only joking! '; " 26:18, 19
"Better
be poor and innocent than rich and dishonest." 28:6
I.
Vices-Drunkenness
"Wine
makes people scoff, and liquor makes them noisy; anyone who staggers with it
isn't wise." 20:1
"If
you love win and oil, you will not get rich." 21:17b
"Don't
keep company with those who drink too much wine or eat too much meat for
pleasure, because a drunkard and a glutton will get poor, and being in a stupor
will dress you in rags." 23:20, 21
J.
Vices-Enticement to Evil (Crime)
"My
son, if sinners tempt you don't be willing to sin." 1:10
"If
anyone leads good people astray, he will fall into his own pit, but the innocent
will inherit prosperity." 28:10
"Where
there are many wicked, crime increases, but the righteous will see their
downfall. " 29: 16
K.
Vices-Flattery
"A
flattering mouth causes ruin." 26:28b
"Silver
is refined in a melting pot and gold in a furnace, but flattery is the way a man
is tested." 27:21
"Criticize
a man, and afterwards he'll be kindlier than if you had flattered him. "
28: 23
"A
man who flatters his neighbor spreads a net for his feet." 29:5
L.
Vices-Gluttony
"A
good person eats to satisfy his appetite, but the belly of the wicked is never
filled. " 13: 25
"When
you find honey, eat only as much as you need; if you get too much you may vomit
it." 25:16
M.
Vices-Gossiping (Slandering)
"Anyone...is
a fool...who spreads slander." 10:18
"A
person who gossips gives away secrets." 11:13
"A
malicious man starts quarrels, and a slanderer can break a friendship." 16:28
"If
you cover a friend's wrong, you seek his goodwill, but if you repeat the thing,
you will break up the friendship." 17:9
"One
with a malicious tongue will get into trouble." 17:20b
"The
tongue has power over death and life, those who love to talk will have to eat
what they say." 18:21
"A
gossip goes around and tells secrets; don't have anything to do with a person
whose mouth is always open." 20:19
"As
the north wind produces rain, a whispering tongue brings angry looks."
25:23
"Without
wood a fire goes out, and without slandering a quarrel dies down." 26:20
"Do
you see someone who is quick to talk? There is more hope for a fool than for
him." 29:20
N.
Vices-Greed
"The
unfaithful are trapped by their greed." 11:6b
"The
greedy man brings trouble to his home." 15:27a
"The
wants of a lazy man kill him because his hands refuse to work. He is always
feeling greedy." 21:25, 26a
"A
greedy person is in a hurry to get rich, not realizing that want is about to
overtake him." 28:22
O.
Vices-Hatred
"Ate
stirs up quarrels, but love covers every wrong." 10:12
A
scoffer gets hated by everyone." 24:9b
"Bloodthirsty
men hate an innocent person but good people seek to live like him." 29:10
P.
Vices-Honor-Seeking
"Don't
glorify yourself before a king or stand in the place that belongs to nobles. It
is better to be told "Come up here', than to be put down before a
prince." 25:6-7
"Another
person should praise you and not your own mouth, a stranger, and not your own
lips." 27:2
Q.
Vices-Hypocrisy
"The
hypocrisy of unfaithful people leads them to ruin." 11:3b
"A
wicked person puts on a bold face." 21:29a
R.
Vices-Immorality, Enticement to
"He
who winks with his eyes causes heartaches." 10:10a
"Doing
something lewd is fun for a fool." 10:23a
S.
Vices-Influence Buying
"Giving
a gift provides access for a person and brings him before great men." 18:16
"Many
try to win the kindness of a generous person." 19:6a
T.
Vices-Ingratitude
"If
you pamper your slave from the time he's a child, he will be ungrateful."
29:21
U.
Vices-Jealousy
"Jealousy
makes a husband furious. He will have no mercy when he takes revenge." 6:34
"A
calm mind makes a healthy body, but jealousy means a rotting of the bones."
14:30
"Anger
is cruel and fury a torrent, but who can stand before jealousy?"
V.
Vices-Laziness
"Go to the ant you lazy one. Watch her ways and get wise. She has no judge, overseer, or governor. In summer she prepares her nourishment, in the harvest she gathers her food. How long are you going to lie there, you lazy one? When are you going to get up from sleep? "Just a little sleep, a little more slumber, a little more folding of the hands to rest" "So your poverty will come like a vagabond and your need like a beggar." 6:-11
"You're
a wise son if you gather in summer but a disgrace if you sleep at
harvesting." 10:5
"A
lazy man's path is overgrown with thorns, but the road of good people is a
highway." 15:19
"If
you're lazy in your work, you're a brother to him who loves to destroy."
18:9
"A
lazy person buries his hand in a dish and won't even bring it back to his
mouth." 19:24
"A
lazy man will not plow in the fall; he will look for something in the harvest
and find nothing." 20:4
"If
you work your ground, you'll have plenty to eat; but if you chase after
illusions, you'll get plenty of nothing." 28:19
W.
Vices-Lying
"The
Lord hates lips that lie." 12:22
One
who tells lies is a betrayer." 14:25a
"A
liar pays attention to a slanderous tongue." 17:4b
"One
who tells lies is a betrayer." 14:25a
"Better
to be poor than a liar." 19:22b
"The
way of a liar is crooked." 21:8a
"A
lying tongue hates its victims." 26:28a
X.
Vices-Mocking.
"He
(the Lord) mocks those who mock." 3:34a
"A
scoffer doesn't listen to criticism." 13:1b
A
scoffer searches for wisdom without finding it." 14:6a
"A
scoffer doesn't like to be corrected; he stays away from the wise." 15:12
A
scoffer gets hated by everyone." 24:9b
Y.
Vices-Oppressing
"One
man oppresses the poor and makes himself rich; another gives to the rich and
makes himself poor." 22:16
"Don't
rob the weak because he's helpless or tramp on the rights of the needy at the
gate, because the Lord will defend them and will rob the life of those who rob
them." 22:22, 23
"There
are those whose teeth are like swords and whose jaws are like knives to devour
the poor from tile earth and the needy from the land." 30:14
Z.
Vices-Partiality
"These
are also the sayings of the wise men: It isn't good to show partiality in
court." 24:23
"It's
bad to show special favors to anyone; a man will do wrong even for a bite of
food." 28:21
AA.
Vices-Perjury
"A
lying witness utters deceit ." 12:17b
"An
honest witness saves lives, but on who tells lies is a betrayer." 14:25
"A
lying witness will be punished and one who utters lies will not escape."
19:5
BB.
Vices-Pleasure, Loving,
Being
"If
you love pleasure, you will be poor." 21:17a
CC.
Vices-Plotting
"Don't
plan to do wrong to your neighbor while he's sitting there with you, suspecting
nothing." 3:29
"A
man plotting evil is hated." 14:17b
"A
worthless person concocts trouble and on his lips is a searing flame."
16:27
"One
who winks his eyes is plotting something crooked one who bites his lips has
finished his evil work." 16:30
"Anyone
who plans to do wrong becomes known as a schemer." 24:8
"Pride
comes and then comes shame." 11:2a
"It
is senseless to despise your neighbor." 11:12a
''The
Lord tears down the house of the proud." 15:25a
"Pride
leads to disaster, and a proud spirit leads to a fall. Better to be humble with
the lowly than share plunder with the proud." 16:18,19
"Before
he's destroyed a man is proud; humility comes before honor." 18:12
A
proud and conceited person is called a scoffer; there is arrogance and conceit
in what he does." 21:24
"A
man's pride will bring him low." 29:23
DD.
Vices-Prostitution
"A
prostitute is a deep ditch, and an immoral woman a narrow well. She's like a
robber, lying in ambush; she makes more and more men unfaithful." 23:23,28
"One
who keeps company with prostitutes wastes his wealth." 29:3b
"What,
O my son? What, O son of my womb? What (should I say) son of my vows? Don't give
your strength to women or your power to those who ruin kings." 31:2-3
EE.
Vices-Quarreling
"Don't
quarrel with a man without a reason, when he's done you no harm." 3:30
"An
empty head causes quarreling by his pride." 13:10a
"A
hot-head stirs up quarrels, and one who is slow to get angry stops
them." 15:18
"A
bite of dry bread in peace is better than a house filled with feasting and
quarreling." 17:1
"Starting
a quarrel is like opening a flood gate; so quit before the quarrel starts."
17:14
"Settle
a quarrel by casting lots; keep strong opponents apart." 18:18
"A
man is honorable when he stays away from a quarrel. 20:3a
"Without
wood a fire goes out, and without slandering a quarrel dies down. Like fuel for
hot coals and wood for a fire, a quarrelsome man rekindles a dispute."
26:20, 21
"An
angry person starts a fight, and a hot‑head does a lot of wrong."
29:22
FF.
Vices-Revenge
"The
person who pays back evil for good will always have trouble at home." 17:13
"Don't
think you can pay back evil for evil; trust the Lord and He will save you."
20:22
"Don't
say, "I'll do to him as he did to me; I'll pay back a man according to what
he did to me." 24:29
GG.
Vices-Selfishness
"The
unsociable man is out to get what he wants for himself; he opposes every wise
undertaking." 18:1
HH.
Vices-Self-Righteousness
"Who
can say, "I have made my heart pure; I am cleansed from my sin?" 30:13
"There
are those who think they are pure but arent washed from their filth.'' 30:12
II.
Vices-Stealing
"Treasure
gotten dishonestly don't help anyone, but righteousness saves a person from
death." 10:2
"A
few possessions gained honestly is better than any gotten by injustice."
16:8
"Anyone
who's partner with a thief hates himself." 29:24
JJ.
Vices-Stinginess
"Don't
eat the food of anyone who is stingy, or crave his delicacies, because he is
like one who makes provision for his own appetite, "Eat, and drink" he
tells you, but his heart isn't with you. You will vomit up the morsel you've
eaten and spoil your pleasant talk." 23:6-8
KK.
Vices-Stubbornness
"You
will be blessed if you always stand in awe, but if you get stubborn you will get
into trouble." 28:14
"One
who is corrected and gets stubborn, will be ruined suddenly and there will be no
cure." 29:1
LL.
Vices-Temper
"Lose
your temper and you act foolishly." 14:17a
'If you have great understanding, you'll be slow to get
angry, but a hot temper is the height of folly." 14:29
"A
kind answer turns away anger, but harsh words stir it up." 15:1
"A
person who gets really angry will pay a price for it; if you rescue him you will
have to do it again." 19:19
"Don't
be a friend of one who has a temper, and don't accompany a hot-head, or
you will learn his ways and get yourself into a trap." 22:24-25
"Like
a city broken into, like a city without a wall is a man without
self-control." 25:28
"A
food expresses all his emotion, but a wise man holds it back." 29:11
MM.
Vice-Troublemaker, Being A
"A
troublemaker hurts himself." 11:17b
"If
you look for trouble you'll find it." 11:27b
Trusting
a treacherous person when you're in trouble is like having a crumbling tooth and
a lame foot." 25:19
"A
greedy person stirs up trouble, but one who trusts the Lord will prosper."
28:25
Solomon
lists sixteen virtues, so vices outnumber virtues in a ration of 5 to 2!
Christian virtues are all a fruit of the Holy Spirit, a fruit of saving faith in
Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. The Apostle Paul writes in Galatians 5:22-23:
"But the Spirit produces love, joy, peace... He makes us (Christians)
patient, kindly, good, faithful, gentle, and gives us self-control." You'll
be uplifted as you work your way through this list of Christian virtues.
A.
Virtues-Contentment
"A
dish of vegetables where there's love is better than fattened beef
with hate." 15:17
"Give
me neither poverty nor riches, grant me only my share of bread to eat."
30:S
B.
Virtues-Enthusiasm
"Enthusiasm
without knowledge isn't good." 19:2a
C.
Virtues-Forgiving, Being
"By
kindness and faithfulness sin is forgiven and by fearing the Lord we turn away
from evil." 16:6
"It
is beautiful to forgive a wrong." l9:11b
D.
Virtues-Happiness
"A
happy mind makes a bright face, but a sad heart breaks the spirit." 15:13
"Those
who suffer are always miserable, but a cheerful mind is always feasting."
15:15
E.
Virtues-Honesty
"The
thoughts of the righteous are honest." 12:5a
"A
few possessions gained honestly is better than many gotten by injustice."
16:8
"The
balance and scale belong to the Lord; all the weights in the bag are of His
making." 16:11
"If
you live right and you're honest, your children after you will be blest."
20:7
"Giving
an honest answer is like a kiss on the lips." 24:26
F.
Virtues-Humility
"The
Lord is gracious to the humble." 3:34b
"Wisdom
is with the humble." 11:2b
"Humility
comes before honor." 15:33b; 18:12b
"Better
to be humble with the lowly than share plunder with the proud." 16:19
"Humility
and fearing the Lord are rewarded with riches, honor, and life." 22:4
"A
man's pride will bring him low, but a man with a lowly spirit will get
honor." 29:23
G.
Virtues-Kindness
"If
you take others into your care you're wise." 11:30b
"A
kind answer turns away anger, but
harsh words stir it up." 15:1
"By
kindness and faithfulness sin is forgiven." 16:6a
"With
patience you can persuade a judge, and kind words can break bones." 25:15
H.
Virtues-Love
"Hate
stirs up quarrels, but love covers every wrong." 10:12
"Open
criticism is better than hidden love." 27:5
I.
Virtues-Obedience
"If
you desire a word of warning you'll pay the penalty; respect an order and you'll
be rewarded." 13:13
"An
intelligent son does as he is instructed, but a friend of gluttons disgraces his
father." 28:7
J.
Virtues-Patience
"With
patience you can persuade a judge, and kind words can break bones." 25:15
K.
Virtues-Praising
"A
man is praised according to his intelligence." 12:8a
"Another
person should praise you and not your own mouth, a stranger and not your own
lips." 27:2
L.
Virtues-Respectful, Being
"You
will be blessed if you always stand in awe, but if you get stubborn, you will
get into trouble." 28:14
M.
Virtues-Righteousness
"Riches
will not help anyone on the day of God's fury, but righteousness will save a
person from death." 11:4
"If
you sow righteousness your pay is genuine." 11:8b
"The
one who upholds righteousness will live." 11:19a
"Righteous
behavior is a tree of life. If you take others into your care you're wise."
11:30
"On
the road of righteousness there is life; it is the path that leads to
immortality." 12:28
N.
Virtues-Self-Confidence
"A
good person is sure of his way." 21:29b
O.
Virtues-Temper Control
"If
you have great understanding, you'll be slow to get angry." 14:29
"A
hot-head stirs up quarrels, but one who is slow to get angry stops them."
15:18
"Being
slow to get angry is better than being a fighter, and controlling your spirit
is better than capturing a city." 16:32
''If
you control your tongue, you're really wise; if you're cool tempered, you have
good sense." 17:27
P.
Virtues-Trustworthiness
"Many
a man will profess to be kind, but where can you find someone you can
trust?" 20:6
"Like
the coolness of snow on a harvest day is a trustworthy messenger to those who
send him; he refreshes his master." 25:13
"A
trustworthy man has many blessings, but one who is in a hurry to get rich will
not stay innocent." 28:20
+ Soli Deo Gloria +
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Self Study Bible New International Version Robert G. Hoerber Editor Concordia Publishing House St. Louis, MO. 1986 pp.942-945
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book-by-book guide to the Bible Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing Co and Lion
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